Comments on: Patience is a virtue. That I am still working on.

By: Unsympathetic.net

Unsympathetic.net — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 19:35:24 +0000

[...] am an impatient girl when it comes to things I want. And in trying to be patient in letting this relationship unfold, I have failed. Even worse, [...]

By: Lisa

Lisa — Thu, 27 Mar 2008 02:34:52 +0000

oh sure erin, scare me after i’d already had the post vetted by a guy, reassuring me that it wouldn’t scare anyone off.

and i am trying so hard to just live in the moment, to not worry about what comes next. it’s just so damn hard when it’s the exact opposite of everything i’ve ever done before. sigh. why does this always have to be so hard? oh, yeah, i remember. it’s because i’m me, and i don’t like things simple and straight forward.

By: Josh

Josh — Thu, 27 Mar 2008 01:33:00 +0000

Well, we already discussed this, but why the hell not. I agree with Erin. It’s new, go with the flow. I tend to rush into things and look where that has gotten me the past two relationships I’ve been in…yea…

By: Erin

Erin — Thu, 27 Mar 2008 00:21:32 +0000

Oh man, I hope he doesn’t read your blog yet.

I know it’s hard, but seriously, you need to just chill and let the fledgling whatever-it-is be. The best relationships develop on their own, organically, none of that chemical fertilizer stuff. I know it’s different than past relationships but think of it this way: none of them worked. Let go, fill your worry time, your obsessing time, with something else — the Wii, blogging, reading, homework, learning to cook — and just let this thing develop. It’s healthy to not overanalyze!